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Don, Great post. Back in my NLP days we spent a lot of time talking about the limiting nature of "modal operators of necessity" should, shouldn't. must, must, must not, have to, and so on. One of the useful responses is, "what would happen if you didn't?" It can be freeing and it can lead to a litany of excuses like, I'll die, someone will hate me, I won't be accepted or what ever. In all cases it generally gathers useful information, that upon further examination, leads to transforming the mode of thinking from one of "necessity" to one of opportunity.

On a different note, and I am not sure if this is relevant. When I received this In the Frame from Substack, it did not format well in Outlook. It did not automatically screen wrap and I had to scroll back and forth horizontally to read the post. I wonder if it SHOULD wrap :-)

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